哥哥偷偷去弟弟家带人竟打了起来,知道原因让很多人脸红,网友却纷纷点赞

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中国的父母爱孩子容易“用力过猛”,认为只要自己倾其所有给儿女最好的,就是在爱孩子,然后把亲子关系凌驾于所有关系之上。中国式父母,容易沉浸在这样一种自我感动中,为了孩子,所有的付出都值了。好像有了孩子之后,就完成了人生大事,没有自我,也不用再去追求个人卓越。可是,没有自我的父母很容易把一切寄托在孩子身上,像是一种投资,我毫无原则地满足你的要求,你将来也需要这样回报我。在国内的养老机制并不十分健全时,父母将全部资源和财产倾注于孩子身上,就会不自觉地产生“子女理所应当赡养父母”,包括经济资助、生活照料和精神慰藉等方面。而实际上,如果孩子能力越大,意味着他的时间越值钱。

在辽宁丹江口市一名男子赵先生偷偷的开车去了弟弟家,而且连招呼也不打的就又偷偷的带走一个人,于是就出现了两人大打出手的情况。这两个兄弟闹的是哪出?据了解在3月4号在当地派出所接到村民赵某的报警,说是自己跟弟弟刚打了一架。值班民警挂断电话后迅速赶到了现场。只见赵某正站在一辆车前哭泣,民警很好奇这是什么情况?竟然让五十多岁的一个大老爷们落泪了,了解清楚之后才知道原来是兄弟两争着为母亲养老而一言不合就打起来了。这还真是少见的争着尽孝心而打架的。

在几年前,赵某和弟弟商量由赵某负责父亲的赡养,而弟弟负责母亲的养老赡养问题,但是2012年父亲去世了。母亲也就一直在弟弟家吃住,近几年自己的家境也日渐好转,而近几年弟弟与弟媳的关系不够融洽,时常有磕碰摩擦,就想着母亲在晚年的时候能够过得舒心自在些,就想着把母亲接到自己的家里生活。所以就出现了一大早哥哥偷偷去弟弟家带人的情景。

但是没走多远就被自己的弟弟追了上来,并拦下了要前往的车。“几年前就说好了,父亲归他赡养,母亲归我管。现在说变就变,还不跟我商量。”弟弟姚某某称,哥哥私自将母亲接走,相当于剥夺了他做儿子尽孝的义务,这一点让他无法接受。于是两兄弟就这样争执了起来。一开始是吵后来变成了厮打。

因为两兄弟打架并未造成严重后果,而且都是亲兄弟中间还夹着一个老人,所以民警决定以调解为主,为了不激化矛盾分别对两兄弟进了耐心劝解。最终对于老母的养老问题两兄弟也答应妥善协商。一个心疼母亲,一个孝心满满都是为了尽孝,何以至此呢?居然还有很多网友为“打架”点赞的。不得不说这位母亲教育出来的孩子真的很成功。而不愿赡养父母的你有没有害臊到脸红啊。看完这边文章的你对此有什么不一样的看法呢?欢迎在留言区留言

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Child of father mother love is easy " pass forcibly fierce " , think to want him do all one can only its are all to children best, loving the child namely, override parentage on all relations next. Chinese type parents, in be enmeshed easily in a kind of such ego to touch, for the child, all paying was worth. After seeming to have the child, completed life major issue, without ego, also need not court an individual again outstanding. But, place everything very easily without the parents of ego on child body, resembling is a kind of investment, I am without principle ground to satisfy your requirement, you also need such get one's own back in the future I. The mechanism of provide for the aged in home not very perfect when, parents gets on total natural resources and belongings pour into at child body, arise not can self-consciously " filial manage place ought to sufficient foster parent " , include economy to aid financially, the life attends and the respect such as mental solace. And actually, if child ability is greater, the time that means him is more valuable.

In city of Liaoning red estuarine a man Mr Zhao secretly drive went to little brother home, and also do not make even call secretly take away a person, appeared then the circumstance that two people strike violently. Which is what these two brother are troubled by? Call the police in what received villager Zhao Mou in local police station March 4 as we have learned, saying is he just hit with the little brother. Be on duty after policeman ring off hurried to the spot quickly. See Zhao Mou is standing before a car to cry only, is the policeman very curious what circumstance is this? A when let more than 50 years old actually old old man wept, just know before is brother after understanding is clear two contending for for maternal provide for the aged one character to should not to be hit. This is really scarce still contending for what use up filial piety heart and fight.

Before a few years, zhao Mou and little brother discuss to be in charge of father's provide for by Zhao Mou, and the problem of provide for of provide for the aged that the little brother is in charge of a mother, but father died 2012. The mother also has in little brother home all the time, in last few years oneself family circumstances also improves with each passing day, and the relationship of little brother and sister-in-law is not quite harmonious in last few years, have knock against attrition constantly, thinking a mother in old age when can pass Shu Xin is some more comfortably, thinking a mother to receive the life in his home. Appeared so the scene that one big early elder brother goes to little brother home taking a person secretly.

But did not go much further to be chased after by oneself little brother, the car that bars before falling to want, be gone to. "A few years ago with respect to come to an agreement or understanding, father puts in his provide for 's charge, the mother puts in me 's charge to be in charge of. Say to change now, still do not discuss with me. " some weighs little brother Yao Mou, elder brother privately receives the mother, was equivalent to stripping the obligation that he makes a son use up filial piety, this let him cannot be accepted. Then two brother with respect to such conflict rise. It is to made a noise to become tussle later at the beginning.

Because two brother fight to did not cause serious consequence, and it is there still is an old person among full brother, so the policeman decides to be given priority to in order to mediate, for not become acute contradiction entered patient help sb to get over his worries to two brother respectively. Final to the problem of provide for the aged of old mother two brother also promise appropriate to talk things over. One feels distressed mother, heart of a filial piety is full, It is to use up filial piety, why so far? Unexpectedly still a lot of netizens are " fight " those who nod assist. The child that must say this mother education comes out is very successful really. And do not wish of provide for parents you have be bashful to arrive blush. Look here of the article the view with different what do you have to this? The welcome is in leave a message the area leaves a message

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